The latest issue of Ninth Letter — a physically-gorgeous journal from the University of Illinois — includes my essay, “The Outlaw Bride,” about my marriage to my partner Sandy in 2004 and its aftermath after our marriage was invalidated by the state. It’s an essay about the meaning of marriage, and love, and stuff even bigger than that, and I hope you read it.
I remember thinking that with marriages being legalized in California, “The Outlaw Bride” would be an anachronism. Remember the old days, when we couldn’t marry? Instead, as Californians head to the courts to fight the passage of Proposition 8, it’s very timely. I write about what it was like to have a wedding… and what it is like to be married. And after sixteen years, there is really nothing the state can do to unmarry us.
Happy Valentine’s Day, one and all. Remember that love makes us all outlaws one way or the other.
Posted on this day, other years:
- What the hay, Chowhound? - 2008
- Here's to Michael and the Way he does the Hula Hop! - 2006
- Isn't It Romantic? - 2006
- The Table of Craft - 2006
- For Sandy on Valentine's Day - 2005
- MP3 Players Storm the World - 2005
- How Blogs Work: A Tutorial for Mr. Acosta - 2004